Piers Morgan’s interview earlier this week with radio host Alex Jones has gotten lots of attention, due to Jones’s seemingly-unprovoked fiery outbursts and threatening manner. Morgan probably accomplished what he wanted to accomplish by having Jones on the show. He exposed the raving right wing conspiracy theories behind at least some Americans’ attachment to guns, and probably scared a lot of people already sympathetic to gun control. At the same time, however, Morgan probably didn’t convince a lot of people who might be sympathetic to Jones’s views, and he didn’t even begin to engage in a constructive dialogue about responses to the problem of gun violence that we might get most people to agree on. Was that Morgan’s fault? He […]
File this post under the heading of interesting experiments in psychology, this one conducted by that noted Psychology Professor Jimmy Kimmel. Kimmel’s team proves that if you tell people that two identical things are different, people will find the difference and be able to explain it to you. I’m not sure that I can articulate how this principle applies to mediation, but I am fairly certain that it does.
I posted something on my political blog about two competing ballot propositions before California voters this November. Both aim to improve the state’s financial condition and raise money for education, but each attacks the problem in a somewhat different way. One is sponsored by the governor and the other by a private organization. Polling has indicated majority support for the governor’s proposition, but now there may be a real danger that both propositions go down to defeat. Why? Because the competition between the two measures has sparked negative messages by each side against the other. As soon as we have two ideas before us on how to fix a problem, we naturally start comparing them to decide which one we […]
At a mediation seminar I attended this week, Doug Noll, a mediator from Fresno, California, along with Don Philbin, a mediator from Texas, explained that hardly any of the information we process in communication with others is contained in their words. Nearly all of it lies in people’s gestures, facial expressions, tone of voice, and other non-verbal cues. Lawyers have trouble accepting this fact, trained as we are in the importance of words. And we haven’t grasped its full implications. What was most interesting to me was a technique Noll tried to teach us that demonstrates to another person that they have been heard and understood. Instead of the frequently-taught method of summarizing the gist of what someone has just […]
Even though we may aspire to hold only peaceful intentions, we still have trouble controlling our violent natures. That was proven in last night’s Lakers game against Oklahoma City, a game marred by the shocking act by the recently-minted Metta World Peace (formerly known as Ron Artest), of sharply elbowing opposing player James Harden in the head. Harden may have suffered serious injury, and World Peace will no doubt be suspended for a period of time. World Peace has a history of aggressive tendencies, but showed a genuine desire to change his nature by changing his name. That may prove a more difficult task than he might have anticipated. First, we’re dealing with human nature, which is not so easy […]